If you were like me, you are feeling trapped, knowing that you need a job because there is no security otherwise. Knowing that you are planning a move to a city that can give you more meaningful employment, value your contributions and that your children will thrive and be happy in is a good enough reason. I knew that I would have a few job opportunities and a few was all I needed, with a side business meant that my current life situation would improve greatly because having a job an in addition, running a business would simply mean one thing that was missing from my life: job security. Many people laugh at the word job security, I am never sure what they are laughing at? Everyone needs a job or job options.
How to forward but how with no job
Deciding what skill set you can offer, that will possibly lead to part time employment and hopefully full time employment is the first thing you will need to do. What I did was used Google as a search engine and joined onto Indeed.com where jobs that I wanted could be searched and tailored to my skill set. Plug in those key titles, even adjectives, and these jobs would come right to your email. Doing a search on Google and finding out local organizations, colleges, universities or other places of potential employment was also useful.
For me, I applied for a part time occasional job in an area of mine and was recruited by a coordinator who needed someone with my exact skills. She also looked up my work experience on Linked In. Its your choice how you want to share, and so on. In a few weeks, I was being interviewed and had secured an online distant position as an instructor, something I had previous experience in.
I’d recommend helping to support any place you want to work from afar because you can learn a lot about the work subculture, and any pertinent information about the company in the meantime. From here, you can make connections with other organizations or companies that work for the company you have been hired through networking.
By making connections, you will make other contacts. Here, if you share that you are looking for more work, because you want to make that move, maybe someone can share with you about other possibilities. This was my case. Within three months of being told of the position, I sent in an application and was actually working at the site location within that time frame.
Let no time and space stop you
Sometimes in life, we get that connection or offer we know we cannot say no to. It is an up level from our previous lives because securing a position gives us that stability. Landing a job that pays you what you would consider as a bare minimum to get you going is always a possibility to get you moving into a direction you want to be in.
Knowing where you belong
Reaching inside and asking those important questions about job satisfaction, city satisfaction, quality of life, and happiness are key in knowing where you are headed. Deciding what is negotiable or non negotiable, what you can take to your new job, and new city, and knowing what you can leave, what have you outgrown, what and where can you make new impacts, produce even new knowledge, and build towards what you are meant to do. Sometimes refining your entire vision of where you currently are is necessary until you get to where you want to be. Sometimes this manifestation is fast. Accept all help to get to where you are going. When we moved it was NOT an easy process. I had to accept help to literally toss old belongings that I know would not be useful. Bringing what was necessary was what we had to make the executive decisions to keep, was up to us. Moving is hard work: spiritually, mentally and physically, one everyone. But the tradeoffs can be entirely worth i.
Moving forward towards your dreams is a huge. I’ve done huge moves a few times. Once at the age of 25, I moved to attend a Creative Writing Program about 3000 km from home. Another time I had moved to the same city I live in now, for employment. These decisions are not an overnight process, but the decision to build that dream can begin in just one night. Sleeping on that decision, will help build clarity. Meditating on your newfound dream, helps to solidify what it is you are striving for. Being as clear as possible and focusing on your dream is necessary. Know what and where you want to also live is critical. Decide what sort of home you want? Right down to each detail. Knowing what you want, where you want to be, and what sort of company you want to be in are all important and critical questions. Inner work will prepare you for your change ahead, and you will need to take the time to do this and not overlook it.
New jobs, new life
They say our new life will cost you your old life. Money is energy. Money is a relationship. Knowing what you can expect from your relationship with money and where and how you see yourself being in your new location, is really also about being willing to pay that new vision. Learning from past mistakes, compromises, and blocks can also justify the new cost of your new life. Knowing that the job that you land, may not pay for the new life you have, and there maybe some bumps along the way, but remembering to stay true to who you are is key. You will meet people in your area of expertise. You will also make new relationships where you can support change and transformation, as well as gain experience in your given area. Sometimes moving is the only option.